Bala frankly speaking one of my friend had gone through this very same experience as in Vinnathandi Varuvaya. That is why I said real life incidents. Only difference was the guy already knew she was elder. We all expected it to be a happy ending and as shown in the movie here too the girl backed off due to some personal reasons. I sometimes felt like whether my friend has written this story. For Engeyum Epodhum I really appreciate the director's way of bringing out some real good morals. On watching the head on collision scene I was like .